Men, should watch Footnotes on 4:44, not because it's Jay and he's considered the G.O.A.T but because it's a conversation starter. Men don't have sharing moments or spaces to share like women. Footnotes for 4:44, showed men being empowered to acknowledge their feelings with other men. Without judgement. #dontbejudgejudy
This was powerful! I'm going to be honest- I don't want to know EVERYTHING about my partner.
Unless it's a detriment to my well-being or my heart, I'd rather save those feelings for something serious. Let's not waste time arguing over spilled milk. That's what your homies are there for!
This video can help men to essentially acknowledge and atone for their sins spoken and unspoken. Strive to be better, do better, work harder so that it'll be EASIER for the women (ya mama, ya girl, sisters....etc... you get it) in your life to have your back.
We're in this togetha! Till DEATH do us part. In sickness and in health and in poverty..that's a lot you're asking a woman to do. She needs to know that YOU GOT HER! Volunteering to watch the kids, rub her feet, wash the dishes, cook dinner- these things go a long way. Just think of all the things you want her to volunteer to do.
It's not about having the best 🍆 because any man can lay the pipe. It's about being a FULL man-a man who can acknowledge his feelings and communicate (use your words) without being defensive and accusatory. #noaccusations
Learn that COMMUNICATION is key. Women have superpowers, and we are pretty damn magical but if you're feelin' some-kinda-way, you gotta say it. We can't acknowledge what we don't know.
BE ACCOUNTABLE! Acknowledge when you've FUCKED up (don't make excuses) it makes it easier to work through that pain. When you don't acknowledge the part/role you've played in our disappointments- you only make the healing process-harder and longer. And women leave mentally before they leave physically. It's true, if she's nagging you about something-she cares, if she stops. She's already checked out of the relationship.
Be the light, live in the light, Spread the light.